tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88786242024-03-19T04:56:49.935-07:00Blue CrochetThe nuttiness of a crazy crocheting and novice knitting mom of four.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.comBlogger586125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-1190768104624628062014-01-11T11:58:00.000-08:002014-01-11T11:58:22.049-08:00I no longer have an other.Divorce is hard. It is brutal. It is painful.<br />
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I've been through some very, very difficult stuff. Being sick, almost dying, watching loved ones die. Those are all harder. But divorce is very hard.<br />
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The more excruciating part is what is does to my children. And I can't stop it. I can't make it better. I no longer have the powerful magic of kissing an owie to fix this. Causing your own children pain, knowing that no matter how you handle it, you will fail, is just downright horrible.<br />
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It's hard to no longer have a person to walk through life with. Even if that person hasn't been walking with me for a long time now. There's no one there to hold, no one to call in an emergency. Except that isn't true. I have an amazing family, and beautiful friends. I have them. They have saved me, over and over. By loving me, being there, and reminding me of exactly who I am and of how loveable I am. That I deserve to be loved. Genuinely, for exactly who I am-the good, the bad, the ugly, and the great. I have my children, who are the most important people in the world to me. I did not ever think they would have to go through this. I never wanted this for them when I chose to have them. I wish I could make it better, and as much as I love words, there aren't any to fully describe my feeling for them or how much I wish I could heal them. I'm so blessed that they are mine.<br />
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So. Life has been hard. It's been brutal. But it is still beautiful. I'm myself again, more fully than I've been in a very, very long time. It will get better. I'm amazed at the people who've reached out to me, at just the right times. Thank you. As in most things, you never really know until you're in something how it is. I'm thankful for those who've helped, and encouraged, and just loved me.<br />
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Hopefully I can start writing more. I'll not use this place to delve too deeply into my marriage-this is far too public for that-but it's been my writing space for a lot of years now. Hopefully it won't take me another year to come back. Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-21430041974177475502012-09-16T13:37:00.000-07:002012-09-16T13:37:15.924-07:00If you haven't heard this song yethere you go. <iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/hHcVTbyJqis" width="560"></iframe><br />
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Tenth Avenue North is one of my favorite bands. They are incredible live and I highly recommend you run out and buy their albums and see them if they come anywhere near you. Beautiful music and a beautiful message. <br />
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I love their new album The Struggle, and this was my favorite song until I heard "Worn" which I heard for the first time at Lifelight live. Unbelievable. Comforting. So true. Anyhow, happy Sunday :)Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-86145526550431131922012-09-14T21:08:00.000-07:002012-09-14T21:08:02.947-07:00I have my computer back!I'm one of those fortunate people who has a father that fixes computers (among many other wondrous things) and thankfully he fixed mine! A new power supply was what was needed and he installed it.<br />
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I haven't used my computer in two years. We moved in with my husband's parents and most of our belongings went into storage, included the monitor and power cords and keyboard and mouse and all those other things you need for your desktop computer. We didn't really have a place to set up the computer while we all shared the house, so I told my dad it was definitely not a rush job and remained thankful that I have an iPhone and later a Kindle Fire. However, things like no word processing program or printer or human finger size keyboard held us back from all sorts of computer exploits and enjoyment.<br />
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Finally, this week, the computer was fixed! We were so excited. Until we remembered that the monitor and everything else was SOMEWHERE in our storage unit. Tonight the kids and I tackled the issue. We hadn't been to our storage unit for a few months, which was evident upon opening the door as were hit with cobwebs and dust and startled crickets. We forged ahead. Climbing over boxes, moving things, opening containers and said boxes in search of our lost computer support pieces we found ourselves sweaty and dirty and unable to even find the massive 22 inch NON FLAT SCREEN monitor or the box containing the rest.<br />
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We continued, determined. I spotted the monitor. The girls had thought the behemoth was actually a tv, not realizing it was the MASSIVE monitor I purchased ages ago from Tech Truck, barely able to carry it to the car. After much sweating and contortionist positions we excavated it and I got it into the back of our Pacifica.<br />
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We still hadn't found the long lost box of computer accessories. We opened everything, moving endless boxes and taking breaks to get a breather outside of the dusty and hot storage garage. In spite of our best efforts the box was not to be found.<br />
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So we went to Walmart and then Best Buy and more money than I'd like to have spent later we had what we needed-minus speakers. Just carrying the monitor into the house did me in (why did this have to be the week Joe is out of town?) so we took a break for dinner and lounging and wine-drinking (that part was just for me, I hope that's obvious.) <br />
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After dinner we tackled moving the desk back to the living room and other things out of the way and I set to work. The kids were excited, trying to decide who would have the first turn. They failed to realize that after 2 years of non-use this old machine needed more than a few updates.<br />
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I'm only about halfway through updating, but I had to stop to actually type a post to my blog and revel in using a REGULAR KEYBOARD! And having a GIANT SCREEN to read my words on. Oh computer, how we've missed you!Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-81937037505184747642012-07-29T15:17:00.001-07:002012-07-29T15:21:46.766-07:00Another long absence...At this point I'm fairly certain I'm the only one left reading this blog. That's okay though, if anything I enjoy reading back through it. It's like a scrapbook, although sporadic at times. So far its been a tough year, a year of unbelievable heartache and sadness, but also a year filled with joy and amazing blessings and beautiful moments.<br />
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I've been to nine funerals this year. I've lost more than a few people who've meant a lot to me and to my family. Some were expected, as in lengthy illness, others seemed too sudden-like my cousin Mark. My grandpa and my aunt passed away within weeks of each other. There is so much loss, so much sadness. I've often felt drained, as if I have no more to give. I struggle with not being able to care for others and feeling as if I am losing my empathy. I miss them.<br />
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In the midst of the bad, however, there has been so much good. I'm not sure I'm up to the task of putting it all into words, so you'll get my best efforts in this moment. I've seen more genuine love and care by so many people than I probably ever have in my life. I've watched our family and friends reach out and love each other, support each other, and laugh with each other. We've cried together, hugged each other, and worshiped God together.<br />
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I could honestly write books on each of the individuals who have passed away, on who they were and how they touched so many. My Grandpa Dick was a beautiful example of a husband, father, and grandfather. Someone who lived his faith daily in all the quiet, real ways we should and someone who gave us all an example of how to truly live. My Aunt Traci touched so many with the love of Christ, loving and leading others-and all of us-to truly know Him and to live and rejoice in His love and providence. She taught us to embrace our faith and be loved by God even when things are horrible and painful-to know that hope is always there. My cousin Mark was loved by so many people, he was a great friend and a wonderful father. So many people talk of how he was there for them, with a quiet word or funny joke.<br />
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This weekend a benefit concert street dance was held for Mark's kids. It was bittersweet. Amazing to see so many people come out in support-and those who really just came for the music ;) A ton of people worked hard to put this on and rocking bands entertained us. We had a blast. We missed Mark. We celebrated his life and danced and laughed. I'm so thankful to everyone who came out in support and so very, very blessed to have such a close, loving family to go through all this with.<br />
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There is a lot more I could share, and some I'm not ready to yet, so I'll save it for later. Hopefully I won't be absent for as long this time. I will say trying to write a blog post on my phone or Kindle isn't quite as easy as computer-which I will hopefully have back up and running soon. Life has changed a lot on my end, I've worked hard at living healthier and have lost 65 pounds so far. I am now home taking care of my nephews and niece-as well as my own four-and having an absolute blast doing so. Its so much fun I can't believe I get paid for it. ;) I am still reading a whole bunch and knitting and crocheting as well-I definitely need to get some pics uploaded. I'm off for now, thanks if you're here reading this and welcome if its the first time you've read here. I apologize for my lack of posts, if you read back you'll realize that's a recurrent theme here.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-59066065959771004022012-01-31T00:47:00.002-08:002012-01-31T00:55:09.375-08:00Words aren't enough.If you know me, you know I love words. But today, they aren't enough. My cousin died today. It isn't right, it isn't okay, and I've come dangerously close to questioning God. <br /><br />Mark is only a few years older than me. He has three amazing kids. He is an awesome and wonderful guy. I refuse to type in past tense. He is these things and this person. He IS.<br /><br />I can't express adequately who Mark is or how much he has meant to me; how much he has meant to so many people.<br /><br />I will miss Mark more than I can say. So many will miss Mark. His laugh, his voice, his humor, his intelligence. What an amazing guy and how blessed we are to have known him.<br /><br />I miss him so much.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-291103931716972422011-11-14T14:01:00.000-08:002011-11-14T14:16:55.757-08:00I finally finished my Grandma's scarfand promptly forgot to take a picture of it. It turned out very nice and is wonderfully soft and she loves that it is made from the same yarn as the super special secret project I made for my soon to be born niece.<br /><br />I've been adjusting to my new role as a stay at home mom/homemaker/sick person with no job. It's been really good focusing on my family and the important things and being able to be there for my husband and kids. Between that and church I stay pretty busy. I've also started doing some odd job type things to make a little extra cash, but its a tad disheartening to see how long a writing project takes me now. All of this has made it easy for me to forget what's been happening with me cognitively; to pretend it maybe isn't as bad as I thought. Maybe people were right when they suggested it could be normal.<br /><br />But it isn't. I was reminded this past week when I had a whole bunch of stuff going on and by Thursday was feeling it. It started with forgetting to press the button in the elevator. I was with my Grandma who can't see well and is also not a big fan of elevators and my forgetting to push the button caused her a bit of anxiety when she thought we were stuck. Later that day, as I took my husband's Grandma to the doctor I told her about this on my way in with her. And then forget to push the button AGAIN as we left. I joked with them both that it must be reassuring that I'm the one taking them places.<br /><br />That same day I found myself in the grocery store, overwhelmed and confused as I tried to find things on a list from my husband. I was muddled and couldn't figure out why. I couldn't remember how to find things, how to look for them. And then I ran into someone I knew, except I didn't realize I knew him at first (despite actually knowing him quite well.) Thankfully when he talked to me my brain kicked in and my focusing on our conversation helped to sort of reset my brain.<br /><br />This weekend I again I saw someone I knew very well a few years back. I haven't seen her in awhile, but its someone I would normally know right away and was very happy to see her. Except I couldn't figure out who she was. I used to try to pretend my way through these moments, but now I just come out with it and admit I am not sure who they are. If the opportunity presents itself I explain the whole disease thing.<br /><br />The hardest part, I think, are my own reactions to these moments. There is this huge awareness that I'm doing something wrong and it absolutely unsettles me. I then get flustered and upset. Instead of trying to hide it I just acknowledge it. It seems worse when its someone I know well and I feel like its hurting their feelings when I can't figure out who they are.<br /><br />At the moment I'm reading a book called Still Alice by Lisa Genova, about a women in her 50's who learns she has early-onset Alzheimers. I don't have Alzheimers, but I sure do have many of the same moments as the woman in the book and have found myself close to tears reading about a fictional character experiencing it. In a way its comforting to see what I feel written down.<br /><br />The good news is that I'm learning how far I can push myself, and at what level of activity I should keep things, before I get too tired and befuddled. I'm also getting motivated to once again start the medical process rolling in the hopes of getting some sort of help. I seem to get stymied each time I try, but its better to keep trying than get complacent.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-52739404518182779152011-10-15T19:53:00.000-07:002011-10-15T20:10:19.926-07:00GO HAWKS!We just finished watching the Hawkeyes beat Northwestern and I am pretty darn happy and excited about it. I love watching football, and I especially love watching smooth football plays that end in touchdowns. Nicely done Hawks.<br /><br />I'm pretty excited because I finally logged back into Ravelry for the first time in a bit and had requests to feature some photos on a pattern page. It's the second time its happened to me and each time I feel like I've won some sort of big award or pageant and I walk around showing the computer screen to each member of my family-who've now learned to give me big grins and congratulations, commensurate to my own level of excitement and pride. So thanks, for featuring my pictures, I really dig it.<br /><br />I'm currently knitting a scarf for my Grandma, that I really should've finished in time for her birthday on Sept. 23rd. Thankfully she KNOWS me and loves me and pretty much understands procrastination is my middle name (its silent, after Michele.) I still remember when my other Grandma asked me if I knew what the word procrastination meant back when I was a kid-I didn't, but boy do I embody it. So, at some point-hopefully this month-I will get it finished. What doesn't help is when I knit while watching the Hawkeyes and get distracted and k, p the wrong row and have to frog a few rows and go back and do them again. I also forgot to send off the surprise stuff to my sister in time for her baby shower-so that'll end up being a new baby gift instead. Which means I should really send it tomorrow, since the baby is due in a month or so-WOOHOO my niece is coming soon! Hooray!<br /><br />In other news my health funk has continued in bits and pieces, but I'm fairly certain I'm regaining my perspective and getting back on track. Still looking to God and holding on there. Tightly, mostly.<br /><br />So I miss my family out in Cali and wish I had been there for my sister's baby shower and am VERY thankful for our other sister for putting on the baby shower and just being full of awesome. I'm thankful for my brother who keeps me honest and laughing and puts up with me and my kids. I'm thankful for my in-laws for allowing us to live with them and loving us-I mean, really, there are SIX of us. I'm thankful for my parents who rock and are there for me in ways I don't expect and comfortingly in those I do and are pretty cool grandparents. I'm thankful for my friends and other family, thankfully, of whom there are many. I'm thankful for my online friends, who still like me and put up with me even when I'm absent and not involved and not all that great at holding up my end of the friendship. And I'm very thankful for God, for all His love and blessings and for sustaining me and reminding me to be happy and loving in spite of the rest.<br /><br />And for those of you who have lost children, you've been in my thoughts and my heart and mind today and I've prayed for you. As someone who has had a miscarriage I know the significance of today and my prayers are with you.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-37978548692930265502011-10-05T11:34:00.000-07:002011-10-05T12:19:00.276-07:00Good grief I love Fall AND COLIN IS NINE!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg9_g3Q6s_EDu1YSEYKijIjCh0RiQH1x2JmUtZN54turC_zbDMcSijpqTCKVeVrq0wKav9bxLRagERpV5O3z82BWt8IwK5BjHGEwRyPSrNsIqyDCKvzJ_efi3NyF362VUSewiZ_w/s1600/Colin+9th+Birthday.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 238px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg9_g3Q6s_EDu1YSEYKijIjCh0RiQH1x2JmUtZN54turC_zbDMcSijpqTCKVeVrq0wKav9bxLRagERpV5O3z82BWt8IwK5BjHGEwRyPSrNsIqyDCKvzJ_efi3NyF362VUSewiZ_w/s320/Colin+9th+Birthday.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660079412923347074" border="0" /></a>It's so hard to believe that our youngest is NINE! Where did all that time go??? He is an absolutely hilarious kid and celebrating birthdays with him, as in most all things in his life, is a lot of fun and quite an adventure. He is such an observant, smart, funny, big-hearted, and great kid; we are blessed to know him. He will be getting a fancy new bike for this birthday and he's pretty excited about it. :)<br /><br />Colin's birthday coincides with fall, which is my most favorite season. I absolutely love all the colors and the weather and that it gets cold enough enough some days where wrapping yourself in a blanket by the fire with a good book is wonderful, but still hot enough for short-sleeves and sitting in the warm sun. I'm outside right now, the weather is gorgeous and leaves are falling. There's a nice breeze and its just really, really beautiful and I am absolutely loving it. (Until one of these leaves falls in my coffee or I forget to make sure there aren't any in my hair before I leave the house. But it will still be beautiful and I will probably still enjoy it.)<br /><br />I have a hard time coming to post here because I am seeing so many changes in my cognitive abilities. It can be hard to write sometimes and hard to see when I make mistakes I would never! have made before. More recently I am using the wrong forms of words (to/too; their/there; know/now, and even more weirdly: and/an). For other people this may not be a big deal, but for me IT'S RIDICULOUS! It drives me batty and frustrates me to see it happening and there's not much I can do to stop it. I've been shying away from writing anything lately because I've hard a time facing this, but I'm trying to get back into it. Use it or lose it-and if I am going to lose it I may as well use it well I've got it. So, I apologize if I use a wrong word or leave letters out or something else my self of five years ago would be aghast at, I can't help it. I can usually catch it after it happens-but not always. (As I typed that last sentence I left out the i in it and went back to fix it. lol)<br /><br />Last week was pretty brutal for me-and as I'm talking to more people-it was for quite a few of my friends too. I caught a cold bug and it laid me out for a week. I was able to go do a few things, but it was downright ridiculous and I was VERY tired of being down for the count. I found my patience waning and my empathy plummeted. When I'm in that place I find myself being sad, angry, and resentful and then I feel even worse because that is absolutely and totally not who I am, or how I want to live. I become resentful that things that are so easy for others can be downright impossible for me. I become resentful that I am sick, resentful at having to deal with chronic illness, and angry at my cognitive decline. I feel guilty, angry, and useless. I do not say these things here so that others will feel the need to talk me out of these feelings. I KNOW I do not need to feel guilty and I KNOW I am not useless. When you are sick, however, these ARE feelings you have and in my mind it is so much better to be out with it and deal with it, because when you don't they fester and feed off of each other and that is no place anyone wants to be.<br /><br />As I became more and more mired down in all this negativity, God threw a few things my way to pull me out of it. At first I didn't notice. I had stopped reading devotions or my Bible, I had pulled away from those things. I was having a hard time talking to God, and when I did it was mostly angry or pleading. I had lost my thankfulness, and lost sight of my hope. The good news is that God doesn't quit. He doesn't get tired of our surliness, or of us pushing Him away. He's still there, reaching out and patiently waiting for us to step back into His arms. The way he reached out to me last week was through the Bible verses I have up in my room-I have Jer 29:11-14 on my wall. It was there, I would look past it. In other times I read it, I savor it, I let it swirl around in my head. When I'm stuck in the muck I avert my eyes from it. He reached out through my Bibles, the ones in my bookbag, the one on my bedside table; through my devotional books and emails; and through Bible study books I have on a shelf. I couldn't bring myself to open any of them. He worked through my children-and this is one of the best ways. They loved me, they hugged me, they made me laugh and feel lovable and loving again. I was finally able to get out of the house for the girls first marching band performance in the homecoming parade. There God reached out through friends, through my parents. Things were still tough, I was still feeling horribly, my body was still wiped out and exhausted and it was really, really hard to make myself make an effort. I almost stayed home from church. But God reached out again through my Grandma Donna and my Aunt Traci. Was I going to church? Could I pick Grandma up? It will be so good to see you! I waffled on Sun. morning-I could call Traci and ask her to pick up Grandma. I could stay in bed and not expend the energy. Thankfully God kept prodding me, kept urging me to get up and go.<br /><br />I went, and it was amazing. People smiled and hugged me and asked how I was. Some of the little Sunday School people were there and made me smile. I hugged my Aunt Traci, hugged my Grandma. I worshiped God-I felt His love, listened to His Word, sang my heart out and felt his forgiveness and took Communion. I talked with others, I hugged others, and I felt genuinely loved and more importantly-LOVEABLE. I loved others. My empathy was back and it felt very, very good. I went to Bible study that Sunday morning-which I don't get to do often as I am usually teaching Sunday School. I wasn't meaning to speak, I didn't intend to talk. I mainly wanted to just be there and listen and absorb. Instead I spoke and then, as usual, got choked up. I shared my basest feelings, I shared how God had reached out to me, and I let other people know I was hurting and I let other people comfort me. I didn't want to do this-in the beginning. I can be so outward, TOO open as some people say. I bristle at that because I've been a strong believer that we need to let others see our struggles and our hurts-to let others know we all have this and we all fail and are miserable and we all need that forgiveness and love and to know that its okay to fail-its okay to be miserable-its okay that we struggle and aren't always positive about it. We are human. That's why we have God. We have God and other believers to pick us back up, to reach out and love us, and to care about each other even when we don't feel very loveable, or deserving of that love.<br /><br />It's been an emotional week or so. I'm struggling with my illness, I'm struggling with my limitations, and I'm struggling with my own reactions to it. I am thankful and so very blessed, though, to be where I am and to know a God who loves me. To have others who respond in God's love even when I don't think I need it or think I want it, or even deserve it. To have others to remind me of hope, and of love. I used to have this in my email signature when I was working for the church, from Hebrews 10: <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-30157">"23</sup> Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-30158">24</sup> And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-30159">25</sup> not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." I had lost sight of it, but I'm so thankful that the Body of Christ is there to love me and remind me.<br /><br />If I know you, I've prayed for you this week. I may not have specifically said your name, but I've asked God to be with and love and uplift all those I know-He knows your name. I've prayed for myself, as well. I know we all need it, and I know I need it. And if you've been used by God to love me, to reach out to me-Thank you for responding to His prompting. I appreciate it more than I express-and if I try to I will probably start crying all over the place and I think I do too much of that as it is. ;)Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-14815213087944571132011-09-16T15:05:00.000-07:002011-09-16T15:17:15.432-07:00I'm not surewhy I think that things will get calmer once school starts. You would think I would know by now that really, we just get busier. Things are a tad more scheduled than in the summertime, but we're still busy! I am having a little more downtime during the school day, but much of that is spent jacking around and not updating this blog. (Really its housework, errands, doctor visits, and rest time; but there's also a certain amount of jacking around.)<br /><br />I've been doing a lot of crocheting of all different sorts as well as working on BABY STUFF. I'm pretty excited about it all, but I won't be able to blog about it until AFTER my sister's baby shower as I don't want to wreck the good surprise. I found some great and easy patterns on Ravelry that I'm using and of course making some of it on the fly.<br /><br />I've also made headbands, bookmarks, dishcloths, and something else I can't think of at the moment. I'm enjoying it and just wish I had a bigger yarn budget! (Or really any sort of yarn budget at all.)<br /><br />We had such a busy summer and as usual life is passing by far too quickly. We're back into the swing of things with school and have started Sunday School and Confirmation again at church-I am again teaching both and I LOVE it. Next up will be Bible study, starting in a week, I'm really looking forward to it and still trying to figure out where to stash the kids while I'm there.<br /><br />This is such a boring update. I'm sorry. I hope its better than nothing? 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First Day of School!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAfGuB-9Cvhs1nT9_eDFTMUkzylpqpTGp5_TNryIMmwlPg-PmTQwXuF5H3qU5oXauYa8M48gvwuQQc-leZqGQ5aJhiQtxbuu_BxNfOAJSiy4DCIJ4ZsqtMQ0ZIW7MRUOVDSIFEZw/s1600/FDOS+2011.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 238px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAfGuB-9Cvhs1nT9_eDFTMUkzylpqpTGp5_TNryIMmwlPg-PmTQwXuF5H3qU5oXauYa8M48gvwuQQc-leZqGQ5aJhiQtxbuu_BxNfOAJSiy4DCIJ4ZsqtMQ0ZIW7MRUOVDSIFEZw/s320/FDOS+2011.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5644863728429184674" border="0" /></a>
<br />It used to be that I looked forward to-or dreaded-the first day of school because I was the student. The kid going into a new grade full of nerves and trepidation and the excitement of seeing my friends and wondering who would be in my class and if I would like my teacher and would I ever, ever get math class. (The answer to that last one was a no.) Would I somehow get lost or screw something up or embarrass myself. (Those answers are no, yes, and oh definitely yes.) As I got older it became even more about the social aspects of school; wondering if maybe I'd be like the girls in the movies who blossomed into raving, hip beauties over the summer only to stun everyone back at school in the fall. (Um, also no.) I became adept at <span style="font-style: italic;">pretending</span> to be happy in my self and my quirkiness and eventually I <span style="font-style: italic;">was </span>happy as I grew into myself. Eventually.
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<br />Now each year I look forward to my kids starting school. We get supplies and shoes and haircuts and clothes and talk over what they're excited or nervous about. We label things and organize them and go to the open houses and meet teachers and bring all the stuff and then finally comes the NIGHT before the first day of school. Picking out clothes, talking about what time we need to get up and OH WOULD YOU PEOPLE PLEASE GO TO SLEEP BECAUSE YOU HAVE SCHOOL TOMORROW!!!!
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<br />Our first morning of this school year went amazingly smoothly. We'd picked out clothes and done baths the night before, scheduled who would use bathrooms when, and were actually ready a half an hour before we needed to leave. I was really proud of us. Very proud. It's the first time it's happened in 8 or so years of school in our family. I'm still in shock. The girls were troupers about taking the FDOS pics, standing nicely and smiling while I tried not to totally lose my temper while hollering at the boys to PLEASE stand up straight and no don't make that goofy face and please, please smile. I ended up begging, reminding them that their aunts and uncles and grandparents and little cousins would be so excited to see their FDOS pics! Please. And they humored me, sort of, and the girls were so patient and we got our pictures taken. I think my favorite part of these pictures is seeing how their personalities come through, even when I'm talking in that exasperated mom voice and biting my tongue and trying to make them laugh and not lose my mind over a picture.
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<br />They look pretty awesome, don't they? I love my kids and they had a fantastic first day of school and I hope the rest of the year goes well. In true us fashion, <span style="font-style: italic;">this </span>morning was crabby and chaotic so at least I know they haven't been taken over by zombies or robots. Whew.
<br />Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-11489849230756376722011-08-16T13:09:00.000-07:002011-08-16T13:38:30.187-07:00Sigh and YAY!I can't get my pictures to upload today. And somehow, despite having successfully used texts on my old phone to update this blog, I am now unable to on my fancier iPhone 4. They appear to work, but just aren't there. I'm still convinced its user error and may have something to do with my cognitive difficulties. Blogs just seem more interesting with pictures, especially when you can marvel at my crochet and knit achievements and how cute my kids are!<div>
<br /></div><div>The girl portion of our family went camping this past weekend with our best friends for one of their birthdays. It's now the second year we've gone-although last year the boys came along too-and we have decided its a must do every summer. If you've never been to Ponca State Park in Ponca, NE, I HIGHLY recommend it. It is stunningly beautiful and has a ton of fun things to do including horseback riding and hiking trails. The girls went on their first big hike without us and despite a little panic when accosted by a rogue cow they did really well. We relaxed, played games, had lots of campfires, ate delicious camping meals, and reveled in the beauty of nature. It's so wonderful I'd marry it if I could.</div><div>
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<br /></div><div>School starts in a week so we're attempting to get as much lazy time in while still being moderately productive. The school supplies are mostly bought, the kids are sloooowly adjusting to new bedtime schedules and while I'm going to miss the heck out of them I'm also really going to enjoy not listening to the girls fight over the tv/computer/whatever is the focus of the day and the boys obsessively playing Xbox until I kick their booties outside. We really have had an awesome summer though and I am sad to see it end. I'm fairly certain I need to sleep for a month to recover.</div><div>
<br /></div><div>On the yarn front I've been crocheting and knitting away; including a short obsession with headbands for the girls and a new toque for my brother. The best part was that I actually followed a pattern for it (found here: <a href="http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/mountain-nights-toque">http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/mountain-nights-toque</a>) and then about 3 /4 of the way through I realized I should've been knitting in the round the whole time. Thankfully I'm good at seams. And it was a bulky yarn that hid it will. I will now need to re-attempt this one and actually follow the directions. Even with my mistakes it turned out really nicely and you'll have to trust me on that unless you are my ravelry or facebook friend and then you can just go look!</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Next up, aside from more headbands and dishcloths are BABY THINGS! My youngest sister is having a little one in December and while I'd love to share our fantabulous news on whether its a girl or a boy I will leave that up to her. :) In the meantime I'm mapping out all sorts of fun baby things and heading to buy yarn for the baby blanket this weekend. Yippee! (And hopefully I won't have to be secretive for long because I almost typed out two different things that would've given it away, so I obviously can barely be trusted. Oh and if you are ARE a ravelry friend keep quiet if you're being snoopy.) </div><div>
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<br /></div><div>We've probably had our busiest summer yet, seems like we are always off to do something and the next two weekends will be no exception! I'm fairly certain we'll stay busy until school starts (and stay that way including a Labor Day Weekend trip to Lifelight.) I am most definitely NOT complaining, we have been having a blast. I'll try to come back to post about some of it, hopefully. I think.</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Our garden is producing like a maniac and given its rocky beginnings with some late frosts it has really surprised us. The best are the brandywine tomatoes, which come in all sorts of fun sizes and shapes and are extremely delicious. We had one so large the slices of tomato were larger than the slices of bread for BLT's. YUM. That one I named Giganto tomato and most recently we've gotten Bizarro tomato, who is an oddly shaped duck but will hopefully taste just as yummy. I love having a garden and we're looking to expand it next year. Our herbs are doing very well, this year we only planted basil, oregano, and rosemary; next year we plan to add a few more. Love it.</div><div>
<br /></div><div>In yarn news I've been crocheting and knitting away (after a brief hiatus due to the many mosquito bites I had on my hands), having lots of fun making headbands and a few other things-lately I've been into instant gratification. Last night we went swimming at my sister/brother in law's and afterwards I was having fun crocheting with my niece, Jozie. At 2 she isn't quite ready for full-blown projects, but she had a lot of fun pulling chain stitches through with me and we made ankle bracelets for everyone! Here are a few shots of her, I just love this kid. (pictures to be added later, as I am having some trouble with them. Apparently I'm technologically challenged right now.)</div><div>
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<br /></div>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-63930285772892514362011-07-22T14:37:00.000-07:002011-07-22T14:58:55.277-07:00Rough Day<span class="Apple-style-span">I have debated on posting this, but given that part of me being me is that I feel its important to share not only our joys, but also our struggles. ESPECIALLY if it can benefit someone else who may be going through a similar situation. I've really been focusing on living positively, but, let's face it, we all have bad days.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">I am really fortunate to be a member of a really great forum of women who all have different chronic conditions. I've been a member of this group for much of the time I've struggled with my health issues and they've been invaluable in their support, knowledge, commiseration, and listening ear. One side of having an illness is that it can often be hard for those who haven't been in similar shoes to understand how it is (as in most things in life.) It also is very, very good to have a place to go where you can share without feeling as if you further burdening your loved ones and where others understand even when you're at your basest. Another part of being sick is that you often find yourself comforting someone else about your own illness when you do share about it. Now, this I do get, it means people care and love you and what you to know that. But sometimes you get sick of being a sick person. Today is one of those days for me. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">I have been down, sad, in a funk, hurting a lot, frustrated, aggravated, in tears, and downright angry today. All at my illness. I can't stand myself when I feel like this and dislike it even further when nothing seems to help me get out of it. I read, I play on the internets, I listen to music, I pray, I seek God's word and His voice, but SOMETIMES you find yourself in a place where nothing seems to reach you. That is me, today. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">I posted this:</span></div><div><blockquote></blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span"><blockquote>I really shouldn't be so down about this because I've been doing a lot better and living healthier, but I overdid it this week-I pulled weeds and cleaned bathrooms (really scrubbed them) and tried walking on the treadmill. I'm frustrated because I am in a ton of pain, because I couldn't sleep, and because I've been reminded once again of my limitations and it just really pisses me off.<br /><br />I'm sure some of this emotional shit is because I have fully weaned from the Cymbalta and still feeling some of the withdrawal, but I am having a hard time being positive and seem to keep thinking of every negative and poisonous thing I can. I don't like it.<br /><br />I am having a hard time talking to God, not connecting with His word and these are things that usually sustain me.<br /><br />I want to continue and just be normal and I know that really isn't possible because I have a disease, but right now I just am very unhappy about it. Last night I spent time reading funny stuff while I couldn't sleep, but even that isn't helping.<br /><br />Blargh. Off to let myself have a good cry, because sometimes you just need to.</blockquote>And I got a reply pretty quickly, which is one of the reasons I felt a little better. Thanks L, I needed it, and it helped to know I'm not alone, especially given the week you've had!! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">Sometimes online friendships/support get a bad rap. But one of the reasons I love them is that even on the days when I feel no one should be subjected to me, the days where its excruciating just moving around the house; I can pop online and talk to people. Sometimes its this message board I post on, sometimes its somebody through Facebook, sometimes its finding a devotion or song that I read or listen tothat helps me get back on track. Sometimes it reading about the <a href="http://thebloggess.com/2011/06/and-thats-why-you-should-learn-to-pick-your-battles/">Bloggess and the Big Metal Chicken</a>. Sometimes it just posting and letting out all the bad crap, getting it out of your system with people who understand how it is.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">And sometimes I find someone who can help me regain my sense of humor, and my faith that God indeed is there loving me and I am reminded once again of Jeremiah 29, that God has plans to prosper and not harm me, plans to give me hope and a future. (This ended up being a bit cheerier than I'd thought it'd be, would you look at that?)</span></div>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-73855684272124884262011-07-18T12:19:00.001-07:002011-07-21T12:39:07.767-07:00Projects<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzLwEuyMq4xm0A5tgUI5bmPVa_MWFTUwHQvXe0uPjF7uu4Jqud05dlhaqOQDSwBJm44zqr7VxmSqAi1czHhAAAx3ihIeAFfh7HElIKqozYCbvRR9vofoSRF-vV1ik3gq9SpcJstw/s1600/july+076.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzLwEuyMq4xm0A5tgUI5bmPVa_MWFTUwHQvXe0uPjF7uu4Jqud05dlhaqOQDSwBJm44zqr7VxmSqAi1czHhAAAx3ihIeAFfh7HElIKqozYCbvRR9vofoSRF-vV1ik3gq9SpcJstw/s320/july+076.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5630774710966717938" border="0" /></a>Above is a little bitty hat I made for a cool little person I know. She has this big red Clifford dog and has been asking me if I could make him a hat and then waited VERY patiently until I finally accomplished it. It turned out pretty cute and I added a little string so she could cinch it up and tie it to Clifford's head. (After initially posting I realized that the picture makes the hat look GIANT, but its actually sitting on the arm of a couch and not the same size as the couch and tree in the background.)<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJffjBB533X65HHviRt1axNV9a80Ye0JRiwowOsb0JeHlG78OW0vCC8h-CDCz4LhUsq_rxQaAw5OUik1yCdtTU597Eap2lX0zPI0XhWl0N68JVRO8DLtoHY91R0TK3VSja24XCfg/s1600/july+012.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJffjBB533X65HHviRt1axNV9a80Ye0JRiwowOsb0JeHlG78OW0vCC8h-CDCz4LhUsq_rxQaAw5OUik1yCdtTU597Eap2lX0zPI0XhWl0N68JVRO8DLtoHY91R0TK3VSja24XCfg/s320/july+012.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5630774705858867714" border="0" /></a>And this is a headband I made for my cousin Alex. It's super wide and super simple. I've made another for my cousin Libby that has a little crocheted flower on it and am working on one half the width for my daughter Arenne. Unfortunately I can't take pictures because my poor, sad iPhone died this week. My sister is sending me a phone (she rocks!!!) so hopefully I'll be an iPhone addict again soon because the withdrawal sucks!!<br /></div>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-8007524385138345542011-07-18T12:16:00.001-07:002011-07-19T21:42:09.860-07:00Family<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8rrWwQg28Umxt_iNF8xlGc1qSS7tZB6AHXO-Kz2zTnm8uBbbdSrXdtC6Mk4Cbo_lS7_1JM9QrlM8gPxbYLQxzJKfAjmihrsNgJyBWynQLK1K6uIarIgurqhmElNquq6skY284JA/s1600/july+011.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8rrWwQg28Umxt_iNF8xlGc1qSS7tZB6AHXO-Kz2zTnm8uBbbdSrXdtC6Mk4Cbo_lS7_1JM9QrlM8gPxbYLQxzJKfAjmihrsNgJyBWynQLK1K6uIarIgurqhmElNquq6skY284JA/s320/july+011.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5630774094900661234" border="0" /></a>This past weekend was spent with my Dad's family-his siblings-so, my aunts, uncles, cousins, and their significant others including the previously mentioned Aunt Traci, my Dad's youngest sister, and the impetus for our get-togethers. Traci has taught and continues to teach us about the importance of living in the moment, and loving every day. Traci has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and is now approximately 8 mos.-a year + past her expected expiration date. (To those of you that may think that heartless, negative, or extreme: when you have been faced with your own mortality it is often quite normal to grab it by the reigns and talk that sucker into the ground.) I am now 4+ years past my own brush with death, and not even a year since my Dad's. Skirting the edges of our earthly life MOST DEFINITELY puts the important bits front and center in your awareness of your surroundings.<br /><br />As many of us who could came together this past weekend and we really just had a blast. Went to old haunts, danced like nuts in public, and just genuinely enjoyed each other's company. It was way too much fun and I wish we could do it all the time.<br /><br />I love being with my family, especially those I don't get to see often (but seriously the rest of you are NOT chopped liver), and this time was pretty cool because I got to meet the significant other of one of my cousins. My cousin Alex is genuinely one of the most awesome people I know and I am tremendously happy that she is with someone who truly loves her. Al has been a pretty cool person since she was quite small and one of the better parts of life has been getting to know her as an adult. She's more astute than many more <span style="font-style: italic;">experienced</span> or older people I know, putting into focus the stuff we all should be paying attention to and letting the rest roll on by. At some point I will FINALLY post the pics we took of her last year, which may only be funny to the two of us, except we don't care because it was funny to us.<br /><br />In case I haven't said it before my parents really rock and we had a great time with them, I want to be Aunt Terri when I grow up, and I love that my husband and my Uncle George are totally on the same wavelength-and we could all gain some I.Q. points just listening to them talk. Wish my cousins Aaron, Jamie, and Andy could've been there BUT life happens.<br /><br />The picture at the top of this bit of wordiness is of my Dad, also known as Tom, Tommy T, and a few other names (including some I probably don't know) and his dog Pete. Petey is one of the coolest dogs ever and is pretty much people. In the pic above he is forced to stay in the backseat with the womenfolk and demonstrates his need to be in the front with the men by leaning over the backseat and eventually resting his head on my Dad's shoulder. This dog is hilarious and that's one of the few reasons why.<br /><br />That's a bit of my family, and praise to God that I have so many more people who fit in the category.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-63359301374359754492011-07-15T09:47:00.001-07:002011-07-15T12:20:24.821-07:004th of July, a bit late<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNScGk_r4wzEk1dsMj5ae17ohpyZo8KFDxgALphkgHsiN4WwOtxV1AbBNR33Do9T8qRzV_7yadOvnSnVUoOHrO3Y1G7Zuj6G5NewF23XuskmmIxRyu8_ku0_vD4OjyvkQQ214W1g/s1600/july+040.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNScGk_r4wzEk1dsMj5ae17ohpyZo8KFDxgALphkgHsiN4WwOtxV1AbBNR33Do9T8qRzV_7yadOvnSnVUoOHrO3Y1G7Zuj6G5NewF23XuskmmIxRyu8_ku0_vD4OjyvkQQ214W1g/s320/july+040.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629625265931741474" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">We celebrated the 4th of July in South Dakota with my aunt, cousin, and parents and really just had a fun and relaxing and wondeful time. My aunt has recently moved back here and it has been so so amazing being around her and spending time with her, she's an absolutely beautiful person and a blessing to be around. She had us to her house for dinner (which was healthy and DELICIOUS) and we really just had a blast. The kids did snakes and sparklers-I was lighting the sparklers and if you've ever done it you know there is no time to take pictures because you just can't light those suckers fast enough, especially the short ones.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdsOUItfqkjzy7qS7YkZoc61mi-Kaz9FXm53Exs55dflDbL6FyVXTlcod7vjOdxly3IvNaFaZ2eKauUMKwtuKIOSvF8XjsSOuHp-U6RJ9wg6gEZVP8phbWrADy73y0wRuk4Xfbaw/s1600/july+041.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdsOUItfqkjzy7qS7YkZoc61mi-Kaz9FXm53Exs55dflDbL6FyVXTlcod7vjOdxly3IvNaFaZ2eKauUMKwtuKIOSvF8XjsSOuHp-U6RJ9wg6gEZVP8phbWrADy73y0wRuk4Xfbaw/s320/july+041.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629625262942470514" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">The kiddos are lighting snakes with my cousin Libby, boring but somehow its still fun. Especially when you stack a whole bunch in a pyramid and they start shooting out at the same time.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidD9Ys_a5ptrI6EShkmry9uIMThbf6JFaRYY2AvdSYvGXSew8Oqy8CwAs_BJpSsXJXudADWBXLDIoWRqGWcvmMdp-cDFshVXoGYMoTIgz_Vm-MA-D2tpxHL2k0RhlFZ60nQBUXCw/s1600/july+045.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidD9Ys_a5ptrI6EShkmry9uIMThbf6JFaRYY2AvdSYvGXSew8Oqy8CwAs_BJpSsXJXudADWBXLDIoWRqGWcvmMdp-cDFshVXoGYMoTIgz_Vm-MA-D2tpxHL2k0RhlFZ60nQBUXCw/s320/july+045.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629624652049860306" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">We also found a few roly polies, here's one all balled up. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeXd_hfygg_q0t7YmTZs-L461T6apMfn1mHwhMAWub2lA0AmzSX8kgQ7fDjpNVPwEnsA11WrPqAwwoHn1VE9Hluvh924qK7EYWHADfG_-Ci90_iZG8LlT3oh8QYDeqd_WFgqkHtQ/s1600/july+054.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeXd_hfygg_q0t7YmTZs-L461T6apMfn1mHwhMAWub2lA0AmzSX8kgQ7fDjpNVPwEnsA11WrPqAwwoHn1VE9Hluvh924qK7EYWHADfG_-Ci90_iZG8LlT3oh8QYDeqd_WFgqkHtQ/s320/july+054.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629624648812773922" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">One of the more fascinating moments of the day was when we walked over to a little festival at the nearby park and came upon this bit of ingenuity. An air conditioner in a van window. Really.</div><div><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5sO0uG-DMzYnGspkavYFmuBg0yCd3OOBn2JWmpMCayZYkPV1o987eZJi-sOyHhMjCF6tLHIgzsyNYkTlRtG78WyDLwt3LAF_o03PHo1foxK4Y4iJ8F6eSNDxCOvuH0pVRVsczPw/s1600/july+056.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5sO0uG-DMzYnGspkavYFmuBg0yCd3OOBn2JWmpMCayZYkPV1o987eZJi-sOyHhMjCF6tLHIgzsyNYkTlRtG78WyDLwt3LAF_o03PHo1foxK4Y4iJ8F6eSNDxCOvuH0pVRVsczPw/s320/july+056.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629624642853525666" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">My aunt had read about the festival so we were excited to listen to the band. Except by band they really meant big speakers hooked up to this SUV. I think it might be Traci's favorite now.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOtbxMINQDEXwK3RGWOddgGb9s5_wh7kZIJZvhUfkMeZss-HZtsgbX88ww09pJBUlBu8GNEgcZ0z0Su_of2WZGciasrCSVRIbjo8wYTMhd0qoKyZ7WHil4OmYMsQ0nvw4VgEtM3g/s1600/july+058.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOtbxMINQDEXwK3RGWOddgGb9s5_wh7kZIJZvhUfkMeZss-HZtsgbX88ww09pJBUlBu8GNEgcZ0z0Su_of2WZGciasrCSVRIbjo8wYTMhd0qoKyZ7WHil4OmYMsQ0nvw4VgEtM3g/s320/july+058.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629624639238141634" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLyhRSfY5pJAIigMnlJvisuZ7bTRQsmG96OHjynwN8-qjIXcnsLfVIqsNY5EYeBli6vc9focsj6gh22AEA34AwNV6dVyo9rX8LgR9WUurETkwmcVDVy76p6E0-D726vYcWHpgAEg/s1600/july+059.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLyhRSfY5pJAIigMnlJvisuZ7bTRQsmG96OHjynwN8-qjIXcnsLfVIqsNY5EYeBli6vc9focsj6gh22AEA34AwNV6dVyo9rX8LgR9WUurETkwmcVDVy76p6E0-D726vYcWHpgAEg/s320/july+059.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629624635054156802" border="0" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">And then there were fireworks. The city put on a fireworks show and it really was pretty impressive, we oohed and aahed and had a grand old time watching. The only thing we were missing were our own fireworks to shoot off risking fingers and eyes and honestly I'm not really sure I actually<i> missed </i>that part.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></div>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-24057390032251759692011-07-13T21:53:00.001-07:002011-07-13T22:00:53.680-07:00Another finished project<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghdTXER6CB4u9xKNOZBroJ3MQAIBD3wvoUw9ebLqbqkKU9YqiDRU2JkE3PzZHN7fRKyheJzpEXl1UBEgqfDDZc8Yl_A4iumTsh9s_0E6kYrP9EyehQEkB9prMu7YspeI8d5P4_1w/s1600/heating+pad+cover.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghdTXER6CB4u9xKNOZBroJ3MQAIBD3wvoUw9ebLqbqkKU9YqiDRU2JkE3PzZHN7fRKyheJzpEXl1UBEgqfDDZc8Yl_A4iumTsh9s_0E6kYrP9EyehQEkB9prMu7YspeI8d5P4_1w/s320/heating+pad+cover.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629067261586624194" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgg83mnKtpCv-YZ6pqdRJkbGjsfQjhB6gok9Q1bPmUAUCbz0eoFjf2zL7ymldwXn5J-l9f9tbfYMFVOHRw8f0X76y6fEljS0FuAw8vQDyegtQ46Ksq09m1N_4_gPyXLtQ4ZdAgWMA/s1600/heating+pad+cover+1.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgg83mnKtpCv-YZ6pqdRJkbGjsfQjhB6gok9Q1bPmUAUCbz0eoFjf2zL7ymldwXn5J-l9f9tbfYMFVOHRw8f0X76y6fEljS0FuAw8vQDyegtQ46Ksq09m1N_4_gPyXLtQ4ZdAgWMA/s320/heating+pad+cover+1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629067247215761106" /></a>After a yarn hiatus due to the stinging nettle, I finally picked up some knitting and finished the cover for my heating pad. It's nothing fancy, but its soft and I made it out of leftover yarn. Two knitted pieces, crocheted together on three sides and sc edging on the open end. It worked up nicely and is MUCH handier than the oversized pillowcase I was using.<div><br /></div><div>Next up are a special purple hat for a small person's Clifford and finishing the plastic bag bowl for my aunt. </div><div><br /></div><div>I am so happy to no longer have a burning, stinging hand and will wear my gloves for future weeding attempts. I've had a horrible summer cold but seem to be coming out of it and am a little zappy from the Cymbalta weaning, but doing pretty good overall. Missing my girls who are away having a blast at camp. Still need to post about the 4th of July. Coming soon?<br /><br /></div>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-58248043946741772042011-07-06T16:23:00.000-07:002011-07-06T16:38:04.710-07:00Another fairly benign update<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOF4XOVWz6ojrhuGVW6ikaNBdYpQCZTLFYcQajCutXkJFfKWIOreP-Kt_0A4YwuUbpgFvXbjPWFK1gy6BZ_Be3sEH4pKmiqMWK7CYRana7qIkzJgJaaZI3cXP8DsWEsw0QCvfQwg/s1600/dishcloth+for+laura.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOF4XOVWz6ojrhuGVW6ikaNBdYpQCZTLFYcQajCutXkJFfKWIOreP-Kt_0A4YwuUbpgFvXbjPWFK1gy6BZ_Be3sEH4pKmiqMWK7CYRana7qIkzJgJaaZI3cXP8DsWEsw0QCvfQwg/s320/dishcloth+for+laura.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626384698170935906" border="0" /></a>Here's the most recent project, a dishcloth. I love dishcloths for their quick gratification and that they're a nice useful thing. I made this for a good friend and found a couple more skeins of the same yarn so she'll even get some matching ones! This is sugar n creme and I like how it stripes up.<br /><br />I've started another plastic bag bowl for my aunt, using bags from our trip to Walmart while we were with her and some she had already. Unfortunately when I was pulling weeds in the garden I grabbed a stinging nettle and OW that is no good for holding a crochet hook. So I'm on a slight hiatus until it heals. I also realize I have no clue how long it will take to feel better and really should do an internet search on possible remedies. Stupid stinging nettles. (In true me form I thought about going to get some gardening gloves, decided not to, and promptly grabbed the stupid weed.) We're getting some tomatoes growing as well as some strawberries and our cucumber plant that we thought would die is taking over the garden and trying to choke out the rest of the plants. That dude is insidious. I really think our garden is going pretty well as this is only one of a few attempts at growing vegetables and the other was a container garden (which did really well.) It's cool seeing our plants growing and eating food we've grown, next year we'll probably do a few more plants. Our poor yellow and red peppers are not doing so hot though. Between the deer munching on them and the aggressive cucumber they are looking pretty sad.<br /><br />So on my hit list today are stinging nettles, garden destroying deer, and punk cucumbers. Off to google remedies.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-33026388988849469882011-07-04T10:28:00.000-07:002011-07-04T10:46:34.888-07:00An aside on going off medsOne of the big decisions I've made recently in regards to my health is to eliminate some of my medications and see how things go without them. One of them is a med I take for arthritis pain and the other is the one I find it MOST INTIMIDATING AND SCARY to go off of, Cymbalta. In case you don't know me or haven't read my blog before I have some significant health problems. What you may also not know is that I am of the crazy and have OCD and anxiety. For reals. I have spent lots of time in therapy and learned lots of good coping techniques and behavioral changes and along with meds here I am finally as fairly well-managed crazy person. The Cymbalta has also been immeasurably good for the considerable pain I've had over the years.<br /><br />But. Cymbalta has some side effects I'm not so excited about. I've figured the benefits have outweighed the risks but I'm really feeling as if I've plateaued with it. Not only have I learned how to handle myself as a person with OCD and anxiety, I've also grown immensely in my faith and responding IN faith to things in my life. I'd like to think I've come far enough to be able to do this without meds, which is what I am attempting to do now.<br /><br />I'm oddly excited about this. And MOST DEFINITELY YES I am doing all of this with my doctor, who has me on schedule to decrease and is managing my care. And the other caveat is that I know people with these issues often need medication to close the gap and do the job my brain doesn't do correctly. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being on medication for mental health issues, in fact there is everything right about it.<br /><br />I'm just in a place where I am trying a new approach to my health. I am choosing to live a healthier lifestyle, a more natural lifestyle and this feels like the right decision for me now.<br /><br />In the meantime as I wean off the Cymbalta I am finding myself in these edgy moments, crawl out of my skin kind of moments and the pain is coming through more and more. Thankfully I'm not having a lot of the brain zappiness which comes with weaning from Cymbalta. I'm apologizing more to my family and afraid that all those old horrible things like raginess and anger may come back. That maybe the anxiety will become so horrible again, that the OCD will rear its ugly head and I will become consumed by it. These are my fears. I have plans in place in case of this, but it still isn't a fun thing to contemplate.<br /><br />On the flip side my hope is that while the road will be bumpy as I do this, I will see improvements in other areas. Maybe I won't sweat so much. Maybe the tremors will be better. Maybe I will actually be able to lose weight which will lead to better health and ease of the arthritis. Maybe I'll be able to do things I've written off because of the current state of my body. And maybe, just maybe, I'll be able to handle my craziness without meds.<br /><br />In the meantime I'm finding ways to contain myself as I go through this. I'm thankful for my family and their patience. I'm hopeful for the future. I'm still crazy, but maybe a little bit saner or more managed kind of crazy.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-61338053876217715082011-07-04T09:32:00.001-07:002011-07-04T09:51:13.583-07:00Happy 4th of July!We're having a mostly quiet fourth, until tonight when we go for dinner with family. Looking forward to spending time with them. So far this morning I've had coffee, hugged my children, done devotions (Portals of Prayer today), read more of the Apocrypha (I'm in Eccliasticus), fixed the blog links on this blog, knitted (the heating pad cover), and tried to pretend my joints aren't as achey as they really are. Oh and I started a new fun song in our house, to the tune of Whoomp there it is! when I started singing "I feel a poop comin' on! A poop comin' on!" which entertained my youngest immensely. My work was done when my husband just this minute walked by singing it and I hollered out "Yes! It's viral!" This, folks, is the sort of good times we enjoy in the Blue household.<br /><br />As is usual for me I didn't update to the new blog template/design thing on blogger until yesterday. I was pretty partial to my design from <a href="http://www.suckmylolly.com/">suckmylolly</a> except I should've asked her to give me dark brown hair ages ago when she made my loverly header. I always figured I wasn't skinny either so it worked. Finally yesterday I decided it was time for a change and I can't stop playing with the design button. I also updated the blog links, something I hadn't done since probably 2009. All in good time my friends, all in good time. I'm really digging the new look.<br /><br />Overall we've had a fun and relaxing weekend and man am I happy for that.<br /><br />If my hands cooperate I plan to do some more knitting and finish this heating pad cover, then crochet some more dishcloths for my friend. Simple, easy and quick is where I'm at for the moment.<br /><br />Our 4th will be a little different this year, in the past we've gathered at my Grandma's with whoever is in town to barbecue and do sparklers and snakes and shoot off bottle rockets and maybe some other fun fireworks. This year we'll be going to my aunt's for dinner, as always its great to spend a holiday with family and friends.<br /><br />And for the most important part of today's blog, which I won't muck up by being too wordy: Thank you to all of the soldiers out there, all of our military members and veterans. We have many in our families and I'm thankful for these people who sacrifice for the rest of us.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-38493370796046120352011-07-03T19:37:00.000-07:002011-07-03T19:51:03.402-07:00June<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXxQ5Q6xvL1TjzZDBwd1zam7utTPjRbbVfAYTEn7EQoX0C1aHRNrZiZqrEzTSupDyd7X61LlwyTrS2pC7smnzCl9xIhvAen4_76MZ136syOnjCpyTc8QIfUTniYniJnb7sCDj4Lw/s1600/Kidsinbasement.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXxQ5Q6xvL1TjzZDBwd1zam7utTPjRbbVfAYTEn7EQoX0C1aHRNrZiZqrEzTSupDyd7X61LlwyTrS2pC7smnzCl9xIhvAen4_76MZ136syOnjCpyTc8QIfUTniYniJnb7sCDj4Lw/s320/Kidsinbasement.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625322326475438066" border="0" /></a><br />Here are a couple random pictures from June, which whipped by very quickly. I'm afraid July will be even faster as it will be a busier month for us.<br /><br />This first picture is of something kids in areas where tornadoes are a regular part of life are used to, holing up in the basement when the sirens go off. Here are my kids and my nephew all cozied up in a small space. Thankfully we didn't have a tornado, but we did have some pretty extreme winds. We were fortunate to not to have any damage here, but thunderstorms and tornado warnings are a common occurrence here in June.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuQmEWIfj8ZUTQSy4RwRxCFW03-tjpg4r3MziZj1983xe51dhvV7kNcG_TOKleJhghc2cET_suup9YyCUd-d5kV2MRIflkbDz45t-yCdLm-1A9U-idVHZdq6AQ2yJdJcEk3fnN0w/s1600/radishes%2521.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuQmEWIfj8ZUTQSy4RwRxCFW03-tjpg4r3MziZj1983xe51dhvV7kNcG_TOKleJhghc2cET_suup9YyCUd-d5kV2MRIflkbDz45t-yCdLm-1A9U-idVHZdq6AQ2yJdJcEk3fnN0w/s320/radishes%2521.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625322602935238450" border="0" /></a><br />We got the first harvest from our garden-Radishes! It's great to see the garden producing, especially with the friendly deer who like to come and eat off the tops of all our plants. Today we got our first cucumber, wow do those suckers grow fast.<br /><br />And in case you haven't noticed I played around with my blog design today, really liking how it turned out, what do you think?Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-1112119417328761332011-07-03T14:51:00.000-07:002011-07-03T15:55:01.364-07:00The Plastic Bag Bowl<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi53gX0ghITCtMqMTJKqy2hP-LftMy50PbIJ1xMI52VBM6quGbp0awfi6RMvSWEZmOkiSD6a_fCzKrTntKzBpTKYYD_hQUQs2GjHeZ89Lvoka5sQGmmaI7f3aabp1MWSyH6ok-qpQ/s1600/plastic+bag+bowl.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi53gX0ghITCtMqMTJKqy2hP-LftMy50PbIJ1xMI52VBM6quGbp0awfi6RMvSWEZmOkiSD6a_fCzKrTntKzBpTKYYD_hQUQs2GjHeZ89Lvoka5sQGmmaI7f3aabp1MWSyH6ok-qpQ/s320/plastic+bag+bowl.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625263341456028226" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRons6yf0-fZyASBYuEYj84Z_HCZLIQGvCIuzrIHx48VoU1xv9WNYyRqutO0F6AjkTZ528IPa2-kEwCuuxjqbXuYuNaCOxWRZNpkfOV8A7kiWN_D-vRfcw5ojRkGJIBz78p_LtjA/s1600/plastic+bag+bowl+side+view.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRons6yf0-fZyASBYuEYj84Z_HCZLIQGvCIuzrIHx48VoU1xv9WNYyRqutO0F6AjkTZ528IPa2-kEwCuuxjqbXuYuNaCOxWRZNpkfOV8A7kiWN_D-vRfcw5ojRkGJIBz78p_LtjA/s320/plastic+bag+bowl+side+view.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625263338813962338" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg72Gbal-2QC2fKpWvq2iVcwxM4vBCbgWbZ2quLEHl9LA-j3o4VOV51L0xp8iSP-zfzwVxsFzT9P2iwfnXAGnSegWuH9kXjSGvoslO3DTB0_qLzhNik9nbKl17DuS4SC4xuZBW2ZQ/s1600/plastic+bag+bowl-the+bottom.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg72Gbal-2QC2fKpWvq2iVcwxM4vBCbgWbZ2quLEHl9LA-j3o4VOV51L0xp8iSP-zfzwVxsFzT9P2iwfnXAGnSegWuH9kXjSGvoslO3DTB0_qLzhNik9nbKl17DuS4SC4xuZBW2ZQ/s320/plastic+bag+bowl-the+bottom.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5625263342744997042" border="0" /></a><br /><br />As promised, pictures! I apologize in advance for the blurriness, I'm taking pics with my poor, sad, cracked iPhone.<br /><br />I hadn't worked with plastic bags in a looooong time and have been thinking of trying to make a few things so off I went. Unfortunately my large P size crochet hook is in my storage unit so instead I worked with one strand of plastic and the largest hook I had, I think it was a J. I know there are various tutorials on cutting up the bags but I was too impatient to try to figure them out so I cut off the handles and bottom of the bags and then just cut the bag in a spiral into one long strip. In my impatience I wasn't always straight and ended up with a wonky strip, but it worked anyway. Basically I crocheted the same way I would to make a hat, starting with the circle and increasing until I had the diameter I wanted, then I worked in the round, using sc all the way through. Super easy and surprisingly fast, it took me a few hours to make. I think cutting the bags into strips was the longest part and my girls helped with it. It took about ten bags (given our mistakes in cutting). There were two brown bags which made the stripe around the bottom.<br /><br />I'm looking forward to doing some more projects with plastic bags, I'd really like to do a rug. I'm also saving bread bags to do something with those, although I'm not sure what yet.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-70975670686975197902011-07-02T11:42:00.000-07:002011-07-02T12:19:25.041-07:00Hey what's this...Oh yeah!...I have a blog! Hold on to your hats, or get some coffee and settle in as I bet this will get rambly and long. It's me.<br /><br />Another month has passed, time flies when you're having fun and even when you aren't. We've been busy, although its hard not to be with four kids. Of course the kids would probably say we haven't done enough, but that's because they're kids and always need something to do-unless I ask them to clean.<br /><br />As I type, from the back patio where I've got my coffee and did my devotion, my youngest has come out to ask me random questions and proceed to pretend he doesn't know how to pronounce words. Don't ask, I really have no idea. He's 8 and he's Colin, enough said. The other day as we watched Tom & Jerry he asked if I'd ever noticed that Tom is big but has a little name and Jerry is small but has the bigger name. I hadn't. He then said, "Tom is big but has little ideas and Jerry is small but has big ones. Did you get that yet?" Man I love that kid, very astute.<br /><br />I'm continuing on my path towards healthiness and eating right-much more fresh fruit and vegetables, avoiding preservatives (don't faint, I know!), and changing my diet in good but not rigid ways. The book Crazy Sexy Diet is phenomenal, I highly recommended it to anyone looking to change their health through their food. The author is smart and witty and has so been there and explains it all in great ways. I've gone from a preservative meat-loving queen to eating asparagus. I know!!! I'm also changing things up with my meds and exercising (okay for others it wouldn't be a lot, but for me its like the old cross-country days except I can't run anymore lol). I can feel the changes in my body and it feels pretty good. <br /><br />I've finally figured out that because I am so open people often feel its okay to give advice, tell me what I'm doing wrong, etc. and its lead to me having way too many cooks in the kitchen. I've tried too hard to listen to everyone, I've felt pressured to do so (my own internal pressure), and am constantly feeling as if I don't measure up somewhere. I'm learning to live and be who God created me to be, to follow His prompts in my life and to not worry so much about the rest. I'm being me and there's so much freedom in that. I really cannot emphasize enough how much healing and growth have come my way and I thank God for it. He is good indeed.<br /><br />On the yarn front I've been working away. My biggest project recently was kitchen towels and dishcloths and my first ever hot pad as part of a wedding gift for some friends. Unfortunately I forgot to get pictures! Other than that I've made a bunch of dishcloths, a bowl from plastic bags-must remember to post pics-and am working on a cover for my heating pad. I lost the cover for it somehow and had been using a pillowcase that was far too big until I realized that Hey! I could make a new one! Oh yeah! I hadn't knitted anything in a bit, and forgot briefly how to-hang on need to look up the correct term-cast off?, Yes!, cast off and that was unsettling. I've cast off so many times but simply couldn't remember. Thank goodness for the internets.<br /><br />In June my husband and I celebrated our 14th wedding anniversary-where did the time go? Aren't we still in our 20's? We ended up doing a delicious dinner about a week after with the kids in Okoboji. We cooked together (I know! Only fourteen years to get us working together in the kitchen again), had some delicious wine (thanks mom and dad!), yummy food, and a lot of fun. <br /><br />As for what it means to be married fourteen years, I give you this little anecdote: At a friends wedding we were dancing to some slow songs at the end, I couldn't remember the last time we'd danced together, and as we danced our boys came out on the dance floor. For two dances those boys just sort of hovered around us waiting anxiously to get to the pool, reminding us that we'd said 3 minutes until pool time. That's what happens when you've been married awhile and have kids. You dance with your kids hovering about and laugh at how funny it has to look and just feel blessed that you have each other and your kids and good senses of humor.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-83520389890560410632011-05-27T12:59:00.000-07:002011-05-27T13:00:29.346-07:00My brainMy memory is off. Others like to say it's normal; that everyone has some memory loss as they age, have children, have stress; but for me it's more.<br /><br />Today I went to light a candle and instead tried to light my mug of coffee. Not in an offhand picking it up without looking at it way; I actually was paying attention and picked up the mug of coffee and then tried for a bit to light it. Usually when I have these kinds of moments I'll get a feeling that's something's not right and try to figure it out. I looked again and after a second or two realized I was in fact trying to light a mug of coffee instead of the candle.<br /><br />There's something about all of these memory issues that is just really off and I know it. I don't always realize right away what specifically is wrong, but I get a sense that there is something definitely not right and I have to work to figure it out. I now understand the confused or blank look I've seen older people get. It's because you know you are doing something off but you're just not sure of what it is. Or you know that you know something but you can't access it.<br /><br />So far today I have forgotten I was folding laundry, tried to light my coffee like a candle, and forgot to return a phone call. All in all, not a bad day. I have lists all over, reminders, and sometimes I wonder how I'll be in a few years if I'm already like this at 35. I wonder if this is permanent or if it could get better with some kind of treatment.<br /><br />I've always been a little scatterbrained, I used to joke that I'd read so many books that my mind couldn't keep up. Now I read books to keep my mind working. I play games on my phone and the computer and can tell by my scores what kind of brain day I'm having. The tough days are when I can't understand what I'm doing, can't process what I am reading or watching. I crochet and knit but some days I have trouble remembering how. <br /><br />Now that I am finding more balance and getting more rest I see that I have less of the really bad days. I have more of a sense of my limits and can mostly stay out of that endless cycle where I burn myself out and then have to rest for days to catch back up. I'm finding my new normal and it's helping. I have more peace about my situation, I'm not as scared or sad or frustrated. I still have those times, but not as much. I feel sometimes like God has given me permission to slow down, to simplify. God knew I needed a change, that I needed to accomodate my health better and he gave me that change through friends, family, and others. It doesn't always seem that way at first, but when i continued to talk to God, to seek Him in my struggles (mostly!), I found peace and comfort. I found it through the words of the Bible, through that voice in my heart, and through loved ones and strangers. I can only hope and trust that God is taking care of me, of us, as He has promised to do.Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8878624.post-50709237872094080202011-05-24T14:08:00.001-07:002011-05-24T14:09:35.789-07:00Gavel Nazing<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; ">The people we know and love have these entire other lives and range if experiences we have no idea of. And when we learn of them we can't really understand them. Maybe parts of them, but not their whole.<br /><br />My sisters live their adult lives in an area I am slightly familiar with, but not the way I know the place I live. They have different friends and favorite places and familiar grocery stores. I haven't yet seen my youngest sister's house, but I picture them in the places I've seen. They went before away for college, making this whole other life that I only saw glimpses of.<br /><br />I think of my best friend who I know so well and who knows me so well and that we each have so many experiences we won't be able to share them all.<br /><br />And my children, who live here with me, that even now they do so much I am no part of it, that as much as I've known them, from their conception on, that there is still much I don't and won't know about them. What will it be like as they grow, as their lives become more and more independent? Sometimes I have this drive to know them; to know all they've done that day, all they are thinking and feeling. I find myself questioning them and stop myself because I know I can't know them so well, that it's irritating and invasive to be asked so much. That's one of things I didn't realize until I had children, just how nosy I was. I think it's because I am so open that I just expect it to be so for others. My poor kids, hopefully I can learn to let them live their lives without having to know all the details.</span>Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743152544789519915noreply@blogger.com0